paternity
počúvaj svoje srdce
i ked sa to nezdá, táto cache môže byt pre niekoho mysterka :o)
venujem ju všetkým otcom, aj tým- ktorí nimi ešte len budú… pretože žijeme v case krízy otcovstva a pretože nikto na svete nemôže tak zranit alebo budovat dieta – ako otec.
osobitne dakujem ockom náhradným.
na tomto ostrove sa jedno také otcovstvo vlastne zacalo pred mojimi ocami.
príd, sadni si a ak máš štastie, že je hladina pokojná, bude ti tichucko.
môžeš spomenút na svojho otca.
uvažuj, v com ta obohatil, a v com si sa chcel od neho oddelit (a preco).
všetci vieme, že život nie je lahký a nikto nie je dokonalý.
ČO BOLELO, ODPUSŤ PROSÍM.
ČO BOLO KRÁSNE A DOBRÉ, PODAJ ĎALEJ SVOJIM DEŤOM
ak môžeš a chceš, prezrad v logu nieco pekné na svojho otca.
táto cache nie je o bodoch. pochop prosím.
logy typu TFTC ma nepotešia
najvzácnejšie, co o otcovstve viem, mám od niekolkých múdrych otcov:
James Dobson prosí: jasne ukazuj dietatu jeho hodnotu, podporuj jeho sebaistotu a sebadôveru, pomôž mu obstát vo svete, kde platí iba krása, mladost, úspech)
nestor detskej psychológie - Zdenek Matejcek hovorí otcom, ako sa nestratit zo sveta svojho dietata (aj ked napríklad žije s mamou) a ako dat dietatu životnú istotu, bez ktorej ostáva zablokované v úzkosti. má vela co povedat o detoch vyrastajúcich mimo rodiny, alebo v rodine oslabenej.
Stephen Covey ucí (nielen) chlapov viest sám seba aj svoju rodinu.
Albín Škoviera vie, že skutocným otcom sa muž stane iba cez dobrú matku svojich detí a že cez tento mechanizmus sú otec- matka- dieta spojené nádoby.
Milan Rúfus, ktorý neopustil svoje postihnuté dieta – používa iné slová, ale posolstvo je to isté: -podaruj detom otecka, nie iba vcera. bez otecka je ovecka zatúlaná a bez pastiera.
This cache might be a difficult mystery for someone, even if it does not look so.
It is dedicated to all fathers and those, who will yet become one.
Because fatherhood is in time of crisis and no one else can hurt or guide a child like fathers do.
I wish to thank all fathers, especially the foster fathers.
One such fathership has begun on this small isle right before my eyes...
Come and sit down, if you will be lucky the level of lake will be calm and silent.
Now you can recall your father, think of how he enriched your life and in what you wanted to be different and why. We all know that life is not easy and no one is perfect.
What hurt you, forgive him and what you consider worthy, pass to your children.
The most valuable knowledge about paternity I have is from wise fathers like: James Dobson, who asks: Clearly show your child his value, support his self-reliance and self-esteem. Help him to survive in the world where only beauty, youth and success are accepted. The nestor of
child psychology Zdenìk Matìjèek tells fathers how not to disappear from the world of your child (even when it lives with his mother) and how to give the child confidence, without which the child would be trapped in anxiety. Matejcek knows much about children growing up outside their family.
Stephen Covey teaches (not only) men how to lead themselves and their families.
Albin Skoviera knows, that a man will become a real father only through a good mother of his children and this mechanism father-mother-child is through-connected.
Milan Rufus, who did not abandon his handicapped child, uses different words but the message is the same:
"Give the children their father, not only for yesterday. Without a father like the sheep that is wandering without a shepherd"
If you want you can reveal some memories of your father and write them to this logbook.
