Gardner Cemeteries - North & South Mystery Cache

This field puzzle will take you to two historic cemeteries on Old Gardners Neck Road in Swansea. You will have to do a little exploring in the two cemeteries, which are located right near each other and separated by the back entrance to a fire station, to get information needed to locate the final cache. Once you have gotten the needed information, you'll be looking for a typical 4Swans' micro cache and will need to bring your own writing utensil. 

Cache is located at N 41° AB.CDE and W 071° FG.HIJ

North Coordinates

In Gardner South Cemetery (the smaller cemetery to the left of the back entrance to the Fire Station):

Find 2 larger, thin stones for Samuel and Avice Gardner
A = the 3rd digit in the year Avice died
B = the 2nd digit of the age of Samuel's mother, Hannah, when she died

There are several Peleg Gardners.  You will need to find Mr. Peleg next to his wife Mrs. Anna.   The have touching words on their stones that we wanted you to read.
C = the month that Peleg died
D = the 3rd digit in the year that Anna died
E = the 2nd digit in the day of the month that Anna died 

West Coordinates

In Gardner North Cemetery (the bigger cemetery to the right of the back entrance to the Fire Station):

Find a large Gardner monument that isn't like the others.
F = the 3rd digit in the year that Abby died
G = the day in January that Edwin died 
H = the 2nd digit in the year that Mary died

Another tall monument that almost stand alone.
I = the month that Willie died + 2
J = the month that the infant son died - 8

If you need to, you can check your coordinates using the following link: GeoChecker.com.