Hurricane Grove Cemetery Multi Multi-cache

Another of our out of the way cemetery multis.  I pass this area on the way to and from work.  Have always wondered about it and decided to make a multi out of it.  Please be respectful and follow all rules for the cemetery. &nbspCemetery is open dawn to dusk.;Format is as follows: N 35 3A.BCD W 086 1E.FGH.  Have fun.

There will be some difficult parts to this multi, the first being how to get here.  We grew up in the area so no big deal travelling the back roads from Shelbyville to Manchester.  I pass by here going to and from work every day and it's caught my eye plenty of times.  Terrain will reflect the walking around aspect, and the cache can be slippery so use caution.  Format is N 35 3A.BCD W 086 1E.FGH.

Stage 1

At this stage there is a number spelled out on the bench.  This number will be used for A.

Stage 2

The coordinates should take you to one of the gated areas.  For B count how many stones are in the gated area?

D=At the headstone on the far right, the sum of the two numbers of the day she was born and subtract 1?

Stage 3

C=The sum of the numerical months the wife was born and died and subtract 1?

F=To the right of this headstone, what regiment was this gentleman a soldier in and subtract 4?

Stage 4

E=Take the second number the wife was born and subtract the sum of the last two numbers?

Stage 5

H=How many total letters in the children's name and subtract 3?

G=Total number of letters in last name and subtract 5?

There is very little parking at this cache but very little traffic as well.  We set the flashers to make the hide and grab some coordinates.  Please be careful. Looking for a LnL with log and trackable, please hide back well.  We did notice some trash here so as good geocachers please CITO.

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