Walkin' Late at Night Mystery Cache

The cache is hidden in south central Yuba City. You can drive right to it, after solving the puzzle below. As this is a difficult placement, do not go alone, or at night, or without Major TOTT. The cache is not obtainable by extension pole.

1. 1st female country music star to perform at this place in NY
2. her endearment term for her friends (-1)
3. how many are in the ashtray
4. she worked in this diner (third letter)
5. she played her in "Coal Miner's Daughter" (last letter)
6. her bemusement at her helpless love
7. she doesn't want to be just his friend
8. she was pleased to join this group in 1960 (2nd or 3rd word)
9. her maiden name (minus one)
10. when she entered the CM H of F (last 2 digits, reversed)
11. first name of her second husband
12. she liked to walk after this hour
13. how she'll sail her ship