Geocache is not at posted coordinates, nor is it in the cemetery.
Please be mindful of your surroundings and be respectful.
At the posted coordinates you will find a tomb stone. Using the information on the stone, and surrounding area, find the coordinates to the final location.
Assume 45 A.BCD and 093 W.XYZ
A=Dad's full name plus nickname
B=# of tires on stone
C=3rd digit in the year of mom's death
D=3rd digit in the year of mom's birth
W=Which war did dad serve?
X=3rd digit in mom and dad's year of marriage
Y=3rd letter on the bowling pins
Z=Last digit in the year the cemetery formed(seen at entrance or on shed nearby)
Have fun a good luck!