Oxymoron, that's what it's called. The title of this cache says it all and also gives you a hint to what you're looking for.
I know, I know, I hate these kind of residential caches too. The ones where you think the whole neighbourhood is watching you. Well, they might be, you never know. 
If my black and grey cachemobile is there (looking at the duplex, on the left hand side) I might just be watching you. Or it could be one of my teenagers. If I see you, I'll wave or come out. I talked to my neighbour on the other side and he's cool with all of it too. I just ask that you please don't block the driveway. I had a cache across from where I lived before and loved to watch cachers make their find. This should be fun.
I found the camo for this cache at The Sharkz store in Victoria and as soon as I saw it, I had to buy it. Muggles will never know it's there but you should know it when you see it. It kind of sticks out like a sore thumb. After you return my cache as found, please check out Whiffin Spit about 500m away. It's such a beautiful spot to walk and there are a few caches to find as a bonus. 
This one should be a QEF. Happy Caching!
CONTRATULATIONS SookeMomcat on the FTF!