This cache is here to invite you to visit a family friend. The two stages are gravestones where you will need to get the dates and names to solve the coordinates. At stage 2 and 3 you will be looking for the Benson headstones. You will need all the information.
Final coordinates 41 AB.XCD -70 EF.XGH
A. The first number of the year of Alma's death
B. The last number of the year Sarah was born
C. The first number of the year of Franklin's born
D. The last number of the year Norman was born
E. The last number of the year Alma died
F. The second number of the year Franklin was born
G. The third number of the year Sarah died
H. The last number of the year Norman was born
X. Add the last number of the year Franklin was born with the last number of the year Norman died.