Father and kids

Just go caching with your kids

Isal on perekonnas olnud läbi aegade täita oluline roll. Klassikaliselt on mehe rolliks perekonnas olnud majandusliku kindlustaja ja kaitsja roll. Lisaks sellele on isadel täita peres veel palju rolle – ta on kaaslane, hooldaja, abikaasa, moraalne tugi, eeskuju …….. Tema ülesannete hulka kuuluvad ka õpetamine ja mängimine. Lapse arengus on isa väga tähtsal kohal. Oluline on, et isa oleks kättesaadav ja temaga oleks mõnus olla. Isa mõjutab lapse arengut ka läbi enda mitmete rollide perekonnas. Taon perekonnas omaette jõud, mis kõrvuti emaga moodustab perekondlike suhete mitmekülgse terviku. Ema on traditsiooniliselt hoolitseja ja toitja, isa piiride seadja ja „ukse” avaja maailma. Isa kaasamine kasvatusprotsessi on väga oluline, sest isa eemalejäämine laste kasvatamisest muudab kasvatuse ühekülgseks. Isa roll laste kasvatamisel omab olulist tähtsust, kui tähelepanu pöörata laste soolistele erinevustele ja vajadusele erinevate soorollide kujunemisel aluseks olevate rolli eeskujude järele. Tahaksime ju kõik, et meie tütardest kasvaksid naiselikud naised – tõelised daamid ja poegadest mehelikud mehed – tõelised härrasmehed. Pojad tahavad olla oma isade sarnased ja tütred õpivad isa kaudu tundma meherolli. Isa lähedust vajavad kõik lapsed, aga eriti vajavad seda poisid.

[ENG]  Throughout the ages, the father has played an essential role in the family. Classically, the man's role in the family has been that of economic insurer and protector. In addition, fathers have many other roles to play in the family - as companions, carers, husbands, moral support, and role model ........ His roles also include teaching and playing. The father plays a significant role in the child's development. It is essential that the father is available and fun to be with. The father also influences the child's development through his many roles in the family. He is a force in the family in his own right, forming, alongside his mother, a multifaceted whole of family relationship. Traditionally, the mother is the provider and nurturer, while the father is the boundary-setter and 'door' opener to the world. The father's involvement in the upbringing process is essential, as the father's absence from the upbringing of children makes it one-sided. The father's role in the upbringing of children is of crucial importance when attention is paid to gender differences in children and the need for role models to provide the basis for different gender roles. After all, we would all like our daughters to grow up to be feminine women - true ladies - and our sons to grow up to be masculine men - true gentlemen. Sons want to be like their fathers, and daughters learn the role of manhood from their fathers. All children need a father's closeness, but boys especially need it.

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