Kiowa cemetery is 4.25 miles south of Midway Country Church on Hwy 412. We have several family members here and visit when we travel home for holiday's. There are 456 graves, the oldest is Elizabeth Daily 1845-1886. There are also a couple "Unknown" markers.
You are looking for a small matchstick container. It is not on or around any headstones. As always, be respectful of your surroundings. Bring your own pen.