The parish churches of Trimley St Mary and Trimley St Martin stand side by side in the same grave yard. There may have once been a wall between them but that is long gone now. There is some speculation that the twin churches were built by feuding sisters but there is no evidence to confirm that.
St Mary's tower was rebuilt in the 1800.
St Mary closed as a church in the 1980's and is now mainly used for community purposes while St Martin is still used for regular worship.
Trimley St Mary with St Martin in the background 
The listed coordinates should get you close to the memorial of Mary Dains and the other information you need is close by. Then it is just a short walk to the cache location.
The cache is at N51 59.ABC E001 18.DEF
A and C - Mary Dains died 2Ath February 19C8.
B - The path from the gate leads to a red door with several 'blobs' around the edge. Some are quite worn down and other are new. How many in total divided by 5 = B.
D - Mary Ellen Bedwell died March 30th 18D1
E and F - Henrietta was born August FE 1894 - note: you need to reverse these numbers to get EF
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