Beth El Memorial Park is operated by Beth El Synagogue, a Conservative congregation located in St. Louis Park.

This is a pretty simple 4 stage multi. The first 3 stages are very close to each other and should be easy to find.
N 45 AB.CDE W 093 FG.HIJ

At Stage 1 (posted coordinates), you are looking for the headstone for EG. This veteran joined the Navy Air Force at age 17 during WWII. He had a master's degree in both mathematics and philosophy.
Look for the plaque on the back of the headstone.
C = the second number in the year he was born
D = the last number in the year he died
H = the second number in the day he was born
J = the first number in the day he died

At Stage 2, you are looking for the headstone for JK. He also served in the Navy during WWII.
A = the month he was born - the month he died
B = the last number of the year he died - the third number of the year he died
E = the last number of the year he died

At Stage 3, you are looking for RG. He also served in the Navy during WWII. His last name is the name of a Bond villain.
F = the last number in the year he died
G = the last number in the year he was born - the third number in the year he was born
I = the second number of the day he died
 

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