Just a side note about SilkeDC. Sure, she took me from MA across Long Island Sound, but it wasn't against my wishes. And yes, she was sort of liberal in her parenting. I may have a different head than when I left, but I AM still a whole person. We had some fun, things got a little weird, but ultimately, she sent me on my way closer to my goal than when I started. No hard feelings here, SilkeDC.